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The Bible Says...

The Bible says "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel Malachi 2:16

No doubt you have had someone quote this verse to you as you consider divorce. Maybe you even think it means that God hates you too. That would be wrong. The Bible says God sent his Son to die for you because of his deep love for you. He will not stop loving you just because your marriage fell apart.

God hates divorce but he still loves you.

Don’t confuse the current absence of love from your spouse with God’s love. God’s love knows no end. He is always faithful and He will never leave you.

Instead, you need to realize that it is because God loves you that He hates divorce. What loving God could possibly want or even enjoy watching you go through so much pain and difficulty?

The Bible tells us that Love is a choice.
You can choose to love others or not to love others even though God has commanded that we must love others as we love ourselves.

As a Christian, you seek to live your life in accordance with God's will. God gave us His Word, the Holy Scriptures, which are God-breathed and infallible as our source of His Will. God's Word, the Bible, can teach you, provide understanding, give you direction and correction, and bring you comfort, hope and encouragement.

The Causes of Divorce exist when people fall out of line with God's will. Jesus and Paul both have some interesting things to say about divorce in the Bible. Is it possible that the Bible says divorce may be permissable?

God created marriage. Right from the very beginning with Adam and Eve, God’s intent was that one man would unite with one woman and that they would become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24). Unfortunetaly, that is not how things seem to have worked out. When sin entered the world, so did many causes of divorce that when given the opportunity to take root, can come between a man and a woman and destroy their marriage.

When difficulties arise in your marriage, there are steps that can be taken in an effort to save your marriage. Many marriages, even after a time of separation can be restored, Even if your marriage cannot be restored, you can still be reconciled to your estranged spouse.

In your hurt and maybe even shame, you might think that God can never forgive you for the breakdown of your marriage. You may be feeling like you have failed. God can forgive you. There is nothing you have done that the blood of Christ is not sufficient to cover the penalty for. The question is can you forgive?

Are you feeling like there is no hope? Like the pain is so deep, it is as though someone has taken the heart out of your chest, thrown it on the ground and stomped on it over and over again? Divorce healing is possible. You can survive and you will recover. God's Word offers hope after divorce and healing to the broken hearted.

How Has the Bible Helped You?

What wisdom have you found within its pages? How has it helped you understand and deal with your relationship struggles?

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My wife of 27 years left me recently (August). She refuses counseling and is convinced of her decision. There has been no abuse or adultery on either ...

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I do believe the first thing needed is to define whose Bible you are referencing.

I am Baptist by choice.

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