A Little Over a Month and Still Separated

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A Little Over a Month and Still Separated

by Sorry Stephanie
(Lost)

My husband and I have been married for two years and he is absolutely everything to me. Unfortunately, we are separated right now and it's killing me.

We've had our share of problems, but honestly, it has gotten bad. We were fighting frequently. I blame myself.

Another issue that's causing problems is the fact that I don't get along with his sister. I really don't care for either of his siblings.

It's been a few days past the month marker of this separation. He tells me he loves me but just doesn't know about us getting back together.

We laugh and talk on the phone frequently and text even more. He has told me he misses me and he's lonely, but he tells me he's not ready for me to come back. I just can't help thinking that it's not going to work.

I miss him and I want to go home so badly. My leaving was such a mistake. This limbo is hardly bearable.

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May 15, 2011
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Don't Miss the Opportunity
by: A. T.

I've learned it's important to give of yourself to your spouses every need. It's a scriptural principle to love one another.

You and your husband are married and have been joined to one another becoming one flesh in the presence of God Almighty. A covenant has been made with Jehovah God on the day you two were joined together.

We must put our spouses needs before our own. Unless your spouse is being physically abusive to you or there is infidelity in your marriage one must not miss the opportunity to grow together spiritually. Seasons like this in marriage can be very challenging and painful while requiring patience with loving kindness.

I was asked to leave my home and family 4 years ago. We have had our share of problems obviously leading up to that point. My wife was very unhappy in our marriage even though I had the best of intentions for our family. However, I am not giving up on us and our family.

I continue to learn and uncover valuable precepts through biblical wisdom and consistently apply them to our relationship. I continue to pray for our marriage to be reconciled and to be allowed to come home to stay.

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