Christian Divorce Support Blog

Christian Divorce Support Online exists to help, encourage and equip Christians wrestling with separation, divorce and remarriage. It also offers a place for those who have gone before to reach back and lend a hand of encouragment to those coming behind. Each case is different but the pain, the grief and the difficulties are real. Strength, wisdom and perseverance comes from God and is very often distributed through his people as we love and support one another.

Over ten years without sex and no hope to restore

I have given up on ever having a physical relationship with my wife again. It has been over ten years since, well, anything has happened. I can't stand

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I love him-please pray for his return.

My husband and I have been married for 20 months. For the past 11 months my husband has been suffering from anxiety which was brought on by a miscarriage

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Crying

I noticed that when I cry, it brings relief. We try so hard to be strong, especially after a long period of time has passed but we need to release those

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Wife is Leaving

Please pray for healing and support for my wife {ex} life has torn us in two. Her son and his wife and grandkids are moving to Co. She chose them over

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Withholding affection in light of I Cor 6-7 and Jesus' words about infidelity

I have just begun looking at this site. The first place I checked out was the section on the Bible and divorce. I wish this section would have given

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Start of separation

We have been married for almost 5 yrs. I finally asked for a separation yesterday. He's been fighting me tooth and nail, but I'm at the end of my rope.

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Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on. Revenge

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Hurting

I do not know really where to begin except to say this is a painful place and a lonely one at that. I was married for 9 years we had a lot of problems

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Shock, Bargaining, and Sorrow

My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for seven and we have a 19 month old daughter. Throughout our entire relationship we have

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Between Sorrow and Acceptance

Sad that I'm now a single mother of a one year old, sad that my husband doesn't want our marriage, that he continuously blames me, tries to be hurtful,

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Prayer for Reconciliation and softening of her heart

Hello, My wife and I have been married for almost eight years. We have a 10 month year old daughter. A few years ago I began to start to call chatline

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Husband filed for divorce

I waited 20 years for my husband to get out of prison. He promised me the world. Visited him in 5 states. He went to Bible college in there and graduated.

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Continue to pray!

I've been divorced 3 years now. I've told the story so many times to anyone who'd listen. My family and I are active Christians. 27 years after our marriage

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Me and my wife are seperated. praying for restoration.

My wife and I are currently separated. I hurt her emotionally and physically. I take full responsibility for my actions and regret all I done and believe

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My Wife's ex-husband is not paying his 50% of support

Hi Everyone...I need advice badly. My wife’s ex-husband makes about $10,000 more than my wife. I pay for her three kids medical insurance. My wife is

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Breakups and Revenge

Revenge Your Ex Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated

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Sexless Marriage

My husband and I have been married just over 3 years now. He has refused sex since the month we married and has rejected me countless times so I gave up

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Separated for 14 years

My husband and I married on 27th ?December 2000. He joined the army and left me in may 2001. Over the years I've asked for a divorce and even signed all

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Divorce after physical , emotional and financial abuse

I suffered. After years of emotional abuse, when the physical abuse started in the presence of my child, I left. Now another type of abuse has begun. Though

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Starting a New Life

I'm 33 and been married to the man I fell in love with. We had been married for 10 years and I finally took a stand to walk out. I have been through enough

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After 11 years of relationship with 6 years of marriage, he has walked out because he has fallen out of love with me.

How do I fix this. I love my husband throughout all these years. When he left, I asked him why did you leave. He said because he had been out of love with

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Confused

Married 15yrs together 26. Followed husband everywhere as military. Often let him raise kids x 2 one of whom is brain damaged with multiple disabilities

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Simple as...

Waiting on God. He has EVERYTHING under control, living by faith is the hardest thing you can do in life, but it is also the only way your life will enjoy

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Still Praying

My ex-wife and I were married 27 years with 2 wonderful children. We've been active in church programs, teachers, missions, worship leaders, youth almost

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Prayers for my broken down marriage and family

My husband and I are divorcing. We have been married for 8 years. We have a son who has a liver disease and needs his parents. My husband is the one who

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Lost Friends and Family with Divorce

It was painful enough to end my marriage. I took time before I started sharing my divorce. I had moved 3 states away from my friends and my family. The

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God called me and not you and that sucks for you!

Three years ago my wife and I both Christians file a no fault divorce. Actually my wife did upon the actions her feeling God called her and not me. Yes

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Broken trust again!!!

10 years ago my wife was 7 months pregnant with our second child. At the time I discovered my wife had credit cards I did not know about. Once looking

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I'm Separated for one month and two weeks.

I did hurt my wife and she did likewise but not willing to forgive and restore peace.....even I'm humbling myself yet she is showing no sign to forgive

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How far do you go?

I married my husband almost 10 years ago. We married too fast and I should have known better. This was my second marriage and I had been divorced for 17

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