Christian Divorce Support Blog

Christian Divorce Support Online exists to help, encourage and equip Christians wrestling with separation, divorce and remarriage. It also offers a place for those who have gone before to reach back and lend a hand of encouragment to those coming behind. Each case is different but the pain, the grief and the difficulties are real. Strength, wisdom and perseverance comes from God and is very often distributed through his people as we love and support one another.

Wife's Overpowering Need to Separate

Lord please help me and my precious family. My wife and I have been married 14 years. She had 2 sons from a previous marriage to whom I have been the father-figure

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No Respect

My husband of almost 14 years and I have 4 children together and I have really tried to make it work for their sake. Looking back, I honestly don't remember

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I don't know what I want

Hey everyone, I have been married to 8 years to my best friend. We had a wonderful friendship and at times a beautiful marriage. I have been struggle

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If you can

I'm trying to raise some funds to handle all the costs that come from divorce, and I'd appreciate any help anyone can give. The process was long (26 months)

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Husband filed for divorce, praying for reconciliation!!

My husband and I are high school sweethearts, we have been joined at the hip since just before our 15th birthdays. We were married at 19 and celebrated

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Separation for Perpetuity

My wife and I have been married for eight years. On April 18, 2014 (Good Friday), she suddenly left me. She doesn't want to communicate with me about

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I Pray for Wisdom and Strength...

I lack wisdom and need for God to just take control of my life. The woman I wanted to marry left me and let's be truthful I am drug user. I stopped but

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Being married but never lived together, sepration after one year and spouse married other what can I do?

We were in love for 9 years...but our family was not in agreement with our marriage..so finally we had a civil marriage..but did not tell anyone in our

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Divorced in Sickness

My now ex-husband left me 1-1/2 years ago. He was cheating but still denies it and in fact tells family and friends I was, that I'm crazy, and a number

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I dont know what to do...

I have been with my wife 8 years. Married 7. We have 2 boys ages 6&3. I got injured in the army during the war and was in constant pain. The doctors put

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Keep Praying.

Im going through the same thing in my marriage My wife is a non Christian and she does not want to submit. But she wants me to stay with her. I want to

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What if I Don't Like my Husband?

It's not that I have fallen out of love. It's that I don't even LIKE him. We dated for such a short amount of time before we got married. We dated 2 months

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Marriage on brink of Separation/Divorce

We are in our second marriage, I have children from a previous marriage and my wife and I have 2 children together. We are in such a bad spot for the

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I Have Been with myHhusband for 3 Years,I Can't Be With Him Anymore

I have three kids with my husband and I have been with him for three years. I can't not take it anymore. He likes to hit and he is not nice to me. He

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Divorce, drugs and young children involved

My spouse of 11 years started abusing drugs in our marriage. He sought help when I filed for separation and during this time he became very obsessive.

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Prayer for comfort in times of loneliness

Hi, I am recently divorced and have 2 boys. I am the only Christian in the family. I am out of work and feel real lonely and miss my kids. I ask you to

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Marriage Restoration from Divorce

I'm asking for prayer for my ex wife Stefani to receive salvation and for our marriage to be restored from divorce.

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Please Pray for my Marriage

Please help me pray for my marriage. My husband and I are separated and fixing to go through a divorce. Please pray that God intervenes and puts us back

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Separated Because of Abuse

My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs. He was my high school sweetheart. We became sexually active very young and I got pregnant at 16. He convinced

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Abandoned Me and Our Boys ..

My husband and I have been married going on 19 years in Feb. We have been together for 21 we have 4 boys and one grandchild. We have been through everything

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Moving On

I was married for 25 years. I always thought we would never divorce because of our faith. Somehow, things got very bad and the trust disintegrated and

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Peace After Divorce: Choosing Concrete Actions Rooted in Faith

By Renee Smith Ettline with Fred Ettline /Jesse Press Uplifting, practical and inspiring this award-winning Christian divorce recovery book has brightened

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In-Laws and Alcoholism

My husband and I got married in October 2012. We currently share a one year old daughter. He has suffered from alcohol addiction brought on and made worse

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[The Miracle of Peace After Divorce]

Your past does not have to dictate your future. You have the God-given power to make your life better and to heal from divorce. When I was going through

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Husband abandoned me 3 times within 20 months of our marriage and just recently told me he doesn't love me.

My question to others: Why did he marry me? After being divorced for 18 years (from a marriage of 21 years with three children, one of whom died 10 years

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My husband has abandoned our marriage 4 times in our 20 month marriage and now says he doesn't love me.

After 18 years of being divorced (marriage lasted 21 years, 3 children, one of which died 10 years ago at age 20). I married a second time to a man who

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Separated and Angry

We were married July 2008 and separated December 2013. Marriage is not a bed of roses- that I know for a fact. However, when you are actually experiencing

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Recommitted

My wife and I have been married for nineteen years as of June 17. She is 40 and I am 43. We met in college and fell in love and married. My wife gave

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I Love My Wife but She Doesn't Love Me

I am a logger who works all the time. Since my wife quit her job to go to school. I have been working seven days a week for the most part of four years

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No Support from Spouse

Both of us are professing Christians, but that is about the extent of the togetherness we've had. We go to different churches. I've been involved in the

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