Christian Divorce Support Blog

Christian Divorce Support Online exists to help, encourage and equip Christians wrestling with separation, divorce and remarriage. It also offers a place for those who have gone before to reach back and lend a hand of encouragment to those coming behind. Each case is different but the pain, the grief and the difficulties are real. Strength, wisdom and perseverance comes from God and is very often distributed through his people as we love and support one another.

Moving On

I was married for 25 years. I always thought we would never divorce because of our faith. Somehow, things got very bad and the trust disintegrated and

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Peace After Divorce: Choosing Concrete Actions Rooted in Faith

By Renee Smith Ettline with Fred Ettline /Jesse Press Uplifting, practical and inspiring this award-winning Christian divorce recovery book has brightened

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In-Laws and Alcoholism

My husband and I got married in October 2012. We currently share a one year old daughter. He has suffered from alcohol addiction brought on and made worse

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[The Miracle of Peace After Divorce]

Your past does not have to dictate your future. You have the God-given power to make your life better and to heal from divorce. When I was going through

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Husband abandoned me 3 times within 20 months of our marriage and just recently told me he doesn't love me.

My question to others: Why did he marry me? After being divorced for 18 years (from a marriage of 21 years with three children, one of whom died 10 years

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My husband has abandoned our marriage 4 times in our 20 month marriage and now says he doesn't love me.

After 18 years of being divorced (marriage lasted 21 years, 3 children, one of which died 10 years ago at age 20). I married a second time to a man who

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Separated and Angry

We were married July 2008 and separated December 2013. Marriage is not a bed of roses- that I know for a fact. However, when you are actually experiencing

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Recommitted

My wife and I have been married for nineteen years as of June 17. She is 40 and I am 43. We met in college and fell in love and married. My wife gave

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I Love My Wife but She Doesn't Love Me

I am a logger who works all the time. Since my wife quit her job to go to school. I have been working seven days a week for the most part of four years

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No Support from Spouse

Both of us are professing Christians, but that is about the extent of the togetherness we've had. We go to different churches. I've been involved in the

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The Other Woman

I have been married for 20 years. Everyone of those years my husband has been addicted to pornography. I have separated myself from him - but then I would

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The Child Support Web

The Child Support Web is your portal to child support resources on the Internet. You will find information about child support calculation, collection,

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Can my wife divorce me without my consent?

My wife wants to divorce and gives no hope of reconciliation. I betrayed her deeply through immoral behavior in past years (15 yrs ago)and confessed it

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Anger

I left my wife when were having an argument about her father sticking his nose into our marriage. I tried coming back home but she had the locks changed

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Confession Related to Confession

About 7 weeks ago life was great from my perspective. Beautiful, kind, and great mother/wife. Then at work one day a pretty woman confessed she had feelings

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In Limbo for Nearly 4 years

I have had no contact with my husband, other than through his mother, for over 18 months now. We have lived apart since May 2010. I hate this separation

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Divorce in process...But I want to save my marriage

Hello Everyone. First, thank you for taking the time to read my story and for offering up any advice you may have. My husband and I have been married

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Emotional support - will be going thru' separation

Hello my husband and I have been married for over 15 years. We have 2 kids under 10. We are a christian family but did not let God lead us as we should

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Reconciled after 38 Years of Divorce

I was divorced 38 years ago with a 3 year old daughter.It was me who filed. About 2 years ago I had to do in-depth study on the subject of divorce and

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Need to Stop Loving

My husband wants a divorce. He says he doesn't love me anymore. We've tried to make it work but he says he can't see me as anything more than a good friend.

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NEON SIGN

Neon Sign by Wendy Lewis (Salisbury, N.B.) After the divorce I realized I had never asked God as to who I should marry. I was not a Christian then but

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Abandoned After just one Year of Marriage

Out the blue.... My husband has abandoned me after just one year of marriage. He changed his number and is living in a shelter. He won't respond to any

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Recovery Begins with the Cross and the Law

I love this story and for anyone living with guilt it shows how much Jesus truly loves us. As long as anyone remains under the law they will be judged

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Should I Continue Trying or Give Up

My wife and I have been married for 14 years and have a 10 year old daughter. There has been lots of arguments through the years mostly because of her

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Does God's Grace Excuse Divorce?

The Bible tells us, All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God Romans 3:23. The good news is there is no sin so big that God will not forgive

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God still Forgives and there is No Guilt

How much does God forgive? First of all, we all sin (Isaiah 53:6 “We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way” and Romans

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All Sins Have Been Forgiven

Many people live in guilt. Many people feel that divorce will send them to hell or separate them from God. This is all lies from the devil. Let me back

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Listen only to the Lord

My story will be short. During my walk with Jesus I have learned to listen to Him. I have been disobedient to Him at times but the Spirit of God has brought

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There is Hope

I am here to encourage every woman that there is hope. Even when it looks grim there is hope. I have put on 30 years of marriage. I stop counting. Please

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I Want to Save my Marriage, Friendship, and Family

I found out in January my wife had been having an affair. It destroyed me all the way down to my soul. This is a girl I had loved for 10 years. We have

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